My brother left me a 25-min long voice message trying to convince me that he knows the best way to care for our mother who suffers from Alzheimer’s. I didn’t even listen to the message in its entirety, bc he lost me when he touted RFK Jr. as the new head of HHS. This is my reply below. Do you see now why I hate going to see my family? Dysfunction in every fucking direction.

It makes me sad that your mental illness has only caused a lifetime of trauma and pain for you and our entire family.

Rather than focus your efforts on getting help to bring peace, balance, and emotional regulation, you direct all your energies to something that only continues to cause conflict and drama.

Spare me the debate on the health wars. I can think for my own damn self, and unlike you, I don’t get swayed by lifelong CON-MEN even when they have manipulated the system to get into a position of power. And I will never agree that you have any right to influence or direct mom’s care. You have brought enough pain and destruction to this family.

Let it go, bc you will never win this battle. And I’m tired of seeing your repeated abuse and wielding of fear to terrorize and bully the family. If you continue on this path, where you are deluded by grandiose visions of healing and thinking the ends will justify the means, be prepared to be thrown into fucking jail. You may get away with tormenting others who let you into their lives. Those people are weak and unable to set boundaries. I will not tolerate your fanaticism, erratic moods, instability, rage issues, and overall energy suck/emotional vampirism.

I am very clear minded. You are NOT going to impose your bullshit narrative onto me. You create ill health, pain, and destruction to all lives you touch.

Your own health is in absolute shambles, and yet you continue to insist that you have the answer for mom??? Please. Do you think your own miserable, isolated, friendless, unhinged life is a testament to this relentless pursuit towards “health” and longevity? Back the fuck up, or suffer the consequences. You’re not a goddamn martyr.

Worry about your own damn self, and stop robbing others of their sovereignty and agency. How dare you.